对呀，他恐怕也没有尝试和老婆沟通，就直接向外面去找了

cheat的心安理得。。。知道第三者要婚姻的时候才开始挣扎。。。其实在发生婚外性的时候，已经是在伤害对方了，自己潜意识中恐怕已经做好了让婚姻破碎的准备

someone downstair said probably most men can get away with a "casual"relationship....I don't think so, once the wife knows, the trust will never come back, the scar in her heart will never cure...that's just pathetic if most men think like that....

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• 其实他说的就是事实，很多男人的casual sex都没有被妻子知道，婚姻还继续和谐 -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:31:32

• 也许知道，但选择睁一只眼闭一只眼，也许不知道 -tuzhirong- ♀ (72 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:38:42

• 唉~我们出去开会，好多男的已婚的未婚的都钓妞，ONS，回去还做负责的人 -雨悠然- ♀ (58 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:44:58

• 嗯。世界这么大，这样那样的人都有 -tuzhirong- ♀ (152 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:01:04

• 我原来和你想得一样。现在比较能接受灰色地带了，现实里黑白的东西太少了 -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:45:04

• 我知道是因为要给他们腾房间。。。郁闷！ -雨悠然- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:57:49

• why only man needs 尝试, woman too, has the responsibility -swirlingflower- ♀ (14 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:39:29

• 当然双方都有责任，你说责任都在女方这未免太走极端 -tuzhirong- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:43:21

• yes, i only hear what man said, didn't listen from the wife -swirlingflower- ♀ (370 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 11:59:21

• right, marriage cannot work out without trust -阿巧- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/15/2008 postreply 12:01:00