对呀，他恐怕也没有尝试和老婆沟通，就直接向外面去找了

cheat的心安理得。。。知道第三者要婚姻的时候才开始挣扎。。。其实在发生婚外性的时候，已经是在伤害对方了，自己潜意识中恐怕已经做好了让婚姻破碎的准备

someone downstair said probably most men can get away with a "casual"relationship....I don't think so, once the wife knows, the trust will never come back, the scar in her heart will never cure...that's just pathetic if most men think like that....