It really depends how helpful your hubby could be. We are both in a mid level right now while we manager two kids with almost no family help, one is very young, the older kids has a lot school events, musical instrument private lessons, sports lesson and practices. I travels a lot with two three weeks at a time. But we have been doing this for some years and we are OK. My hu*****and loves kids and he handles a lot of kids activities. I do whatever I can when I am home. The old kid star to learn help some house work such as prepare veggie dip dish and cook the rice for dinner. We grow up togather. We do scrafice a lot of sleep though. Ultimately, the total benefits of the family, but not a single person's interest prevails.