拒绝迟迟不到的第一个offer后，老板这样回信,该如何回复？

“That is very unfortunate news! I write that as I sit here about to send you over the offer letter that actually will pay you more than you had asked for. I understand. You need to do what is best for you and your family. If at any time your situation changes, let me know and we will see if there is a position available.
Best of luck.“

这是新成立的公司，会有很多机会和中国业务合作，这也是面试时我的一个优势，曾说将会给我经常回中国的机会，工作性质都一样，组里都有其他senior developer,待遇：头3个月比现在接受的大公司低8k,3各月后低3k,保险等也不如，但给公司一定股份（如果未来发展好），也许重新考虑？可是明天就要上班了，如何回复？想听听大家意见

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• 忽略那个老板的心情不要考虑。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (47 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 07:40:26

• 老板不错，就是总出差，拖拉太久都没给个正式文件 -BioToIT- ♀ (20 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 09:55:39

• my suggestion, first job -> big company -Jamesxu- ♂ (142 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 07:58:54

• good suggestion,made final decision for big company first -BioToIT- ♀ (6 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 09:58:21

• "拒绝迟迟不到的第一个offer", 为什么要主动拒绝呢? -腊梅剑影- ♀ (486 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 09:34:57

• 丢掉也感觉很可惜，和老板谈的不错，可是难说这个小公司 -biotoit- ♀ (157 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 09:51:25

• Never ever "拒绝迟迟不到的第一个offer" unless they do it -腊梅剑影- ♀ (437 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 11:35:38

• Depend on what kinds of jobs -Markmf11111- ♂ (174 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 12:47:32

• Bio 博士找的是爱梯的活 -腊梅剑影- ♀ (134 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 12:59:44

• 回复：Bio 博士找的是爱梯的活 -markmf11111- ♂ (257 bytes) () 03/11/2008 postreply 15:33:25