回复：从我们拿到绿卡之后他的态度来看,我觉得之前他生活的太压抑了.

I can understand as we are still waiting for our own 绿卡 and god knows when.
I guess it is easier to tell other people to relax while we build up the pressure on ourselves. My LD sometimes "complains" that I like to 找自己的LD发泄 when I have too much 内心压力 myself.
Now that you do have 绿卡, it takes away one of the biggest obstacle in job search. Take your time to find something you like (if you don't have financial pressure).
Take care and good luck with everything!