但是我因为还在上学,想如果找到工作再跟老板谈quit的问题。"
-- If the job application will hurt your current position, then forget it, apply others.
-- There are many Agent like to ask reference in the begining so it can save time and quickly bring the candidates into work if they find one 东家 likes.
-- But for you, 如孙子兵法 谋攻篇 所言:
孙子曰:
夫用兵之法,全国为上,破国次之;全军为上,破军次之;全旅为上,破旅次
之;全卒为上,破卒次之;全伍为上,破伍次之。
Keep your current job is mort imprtant than find another one.
"我的想法:如果对方对我有兴趣,等interview完要reference check的时候,再跟老板摊牌,争取他的谅解及给我做reference。当然如果连interview的机会都没有,当然不需要告诉他了,我还是他的好学生。"
-- Absolutely correct!
"可是现在刚寄就要,怎么办呢?不争得老板的同意就放上肯定不好,可不可以不放references呢?可是人家要求必须有阿。"
-- Only give the name which will not hurt your current job.
"当然另一个办法是不用老板做. 如果不用我老板,都用2个博士后是不是不太好呢?他们的title倒是挺唬人的。一个是research scientist,一个是research associate,这样成吗"
-- 为甚不成?
"
另外,我的实验前期部分老板不懂,一直是别的实验室的一个博士后在指导我,我想用他作我的另一个reference,可是我们之间是什么关系呢?不是同事,不是老板与学生的关系,怎么写呢?"
-- 你说啥关系就是啥关系. Can be your boss, manager, supervisor, all OK to me. Why not?
-- There are so many experienced friends in here, they all will give good advices.
Thanks!