How to tell an ultra "nice" dirty old boy(DOB) to f**k off?

来源: acme 2007-10-18 14:23:18 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (940 bytes)
I started this new job.

There is a mid aged guy who is not in my team, but in a parallel team, showed great interest and unsolicitated care to me:

He say hello a couple of times a day when he passed my cube.
Sometimes, when he gets to talk to me he is very wordy, and makes the conversation really long.

He also check in with me whether everything is fine, whether I have got all my passwords to access some resources (on my first day, I made a mistake by telling him, I have not yet got all my password).

He took the initiative to load a lot of training documents on a flash disc (they are in the internal network, which I can not access yet) and give it to me ("I have a gift to you!"), eventhough, I insisted he should not bother.

It might not hard to imagine, how annoying the unsolicited care is! What shall I do to get rid of him?

(By the way, I made sure he knows I am married.)

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when re-read my post, I realized I didn't stress that he did eac -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:24:02

that he did each thing mentioned multiple times, very 贫 -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:24:53

Just prove you are no rotten egg, the DOB will be -LoveBug- 给 LoveBug 发送悄悄话 (75 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:32:15

I am totally Not rotten egg, just don't know how to prove it. -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:34:49

Of course you are not, maybe just too adorable :) -LoveBug- 给 LoveBug 发送悄悄话 (267 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:48:46

Thank you, I look forward to the day that he loses his patient -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:52:22

typo, lost his patience -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 14:52:59

from what i read, he seems nice. that's why you put -fcxj- 给 fcxj 发送悄悄话 (424 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 18:04:54

Thank you. I will try your approach. -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/19/2007 postreply 07:16:40

正常,很多白色中年男人象狗一样,见到亚洲女就流口水 -爱民屯老村长- 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (84 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 18:27:21

I really want to get a chance to迎头痛击 -acme- 给 acme 发送悄悄话 acme 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/19/2007 postreply 07:18:03

Did not see a serious problem here. -这山望着那山高- 给 这山望着那山高 发送悄悄话 (53 bytes) () 10/18/2007 postreply 19:02:33

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