Initiate more positive attention when everything is good, and

 

do not react to her behavior with negative attention.

Children need attention, positive or negative.  If they can get it by behaving badly, they'll bahave badly (do they know good from bad?).  They feel the power and control when they can make you jump.

Don't believe that?  Just watch a baby laugh when he throws a ball on the floor and you chase after it.

 

 

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• 她爹也认为她只是想吸引注意，但我觉得不是，晚上不睡不是她想要的 -CA55- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 13:39:34

• 孩子没去大学前，大人早点参与对孩子帮助较大。当然，取决大人的应付能力 和心理知识。 -b103090- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 14:31:34

• 开的药应该是抗紧张的（不清楚病史），孩子情绪太差时，药可以缓解一下。 -b103090- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 14:45:29

• 开的药应该是抗紧张的（不清楚病史），孩子情绪太差时，药可以缓解一下。 -b103090- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 14:45:29

• Do you pay attention to her when things are good? -One1618- ♂ (233 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 14:41:21

• 她不喜欢女孩儿的东西 -CA55- ♀ (149 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 15:26:41

• Is it possible that she wants time to be left alone? -One1618- ♂ (179 bytes) () 02/23/2021 postreply 16:22:06