请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗?

事情的过程是这样的,因为怀孕是否请我父母来还有被layoff等问题和老公冷战了一周多,周六早上8点他要去公司加班,我坐进他的车子要求他在家里加班(他可以在家里加班的)并且把其他问题说清楚,3岁多的儿子当时还在家里睡觉,结果我老公让我下车,我不肯下,他就一直把车开到公司,在路上和到公司门口我一直说不能把小孩一个人留在家里,要他开回去或者给我车钥匙让我回家,他不让说那你为什么要上车,我急了身上什么也没有带就跟他抢钥匙,他硬是不给,我们就在他公司里打了起来,然后8:30左右我报警叫来了警察,说我老公不给我钥匙小孩还在家里,我请求他们赶紧送我回家,可是警察们说要先fiugre out what happened, 这样一直折腾到9:40我们才一起回到了家,这时小孩已经醒了,自己跑出来到车库外的drive way上正在找我们.警察于是就说我们两个把小孩留在家里将近两小时没人管,就控告了我们两个人都是misdemeaner child abuse. 10月9号上庭.

在这里想问问懂法律的朋友们,象我门这种情况在北卡可能的处罚是什么呢?有没有必要请律师辩护或者自己上庭也不会有大的区别?我是准备自己上庭跟法官说清楚,可是已经收到一堆律师的广告了.

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• 回复：请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗? -casinoeye- ♂ (617 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 12:03:56

• Excellent point. Get a lawyer. While a lot of people are -昭君出塞因地制宜- ♂ (544 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:50:43

• 太任性了，居然打到公司去了，演砸了八， 同情中... -随机上浮- ♀ (702 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 12:38:42

• Thanks our status is green card now, what are the possible penal -dreammy- ♀ (451 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:38:23

• 回复：Thanks our status is green card now, what are the possible pe -casinoeye- ♂ (213 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:47:22

• you don't need to be so mean -dreammy- ♀ (166 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 14:58:20

• though he or she is a jackass, u do need to -gracelaqiu- ♀ (279 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:04:46

• my husband was accused too. -dreammy- ♀ (168 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:14:35

• 你的意思是一个巴掌拍不响 不过一个人反省自己的时候最好不要 -菲菲儿- ♀ (115 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 20:57:36

• 您查的是那門的資料?? 很好奇. -單身老貓- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:02:11

• 请问单身老猫在吗,想问问你的意见 -dreammy- ♀ (46 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:02:09

• Just one question for you and your husband: -smart- ♂ (209 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:21:42

• I regret most afterward was my child left at home alone, not my -dreammy- ♀ (409 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:41:56

• till now you still blame your husband not yourself. A big lesson -sleet- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:09:44

• I told u misdemeaner is not a big deal. -gracelaqiu- ♀ (353 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:51:03

• You truly have no shame. -昭君出塞因地制宜- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:59:06

• 你说你I don't think I need to be shamed of anything, I was just out -URBB- ♀ (253 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 18:37:34

• SHAME on you two. especially you! -sleet- ♀ (208 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:04:55

• 回复：请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗? -單身老貓- ♂ (1558 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 15:59:32

• Thank you big cat -casinoeye- ♂ (176 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:37:55

• I'm really ashame of China and the US -ntking- ♂ (684 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:23:18

• 你们想骂就尽管骂吧,我没有说我没错, -dreammy- ♀ (158 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:40:33

• Understood... -internuts- ♂ (507 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 16:57:43

• Thanks for your advice! -dreammy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 18:24:37

• Where are you produced? -粤太- ♀ (249 bytes) () 10/01/2008 postreply 06:41:40

• 你在怀孕其间最好不要有情绪拨动啊,你先生应该多体谅你 -mickie妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 17:41:35

• 真糊涂，堵气也不能把小孩一个人放在家里，小孩乱跑多危险！ -watercress- ♀ (124 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:01:36

• I don't think this woman -ntking- ♂ (682 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 20:03:51

• 回复：请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗? -中小学生- ♂ (133 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:43:01

• Yep! That poor man should just get rid of her -ntking- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 19:59:40

• It was the Man who drove the car away from the house -zxt9620- ♀ (231 bytes) () 09/29/2008 postreply 22:50:55

• Agree! Many people here have gone too far from "law" -粤太- ♀ (495 bytes) () 10/01/2008 postreply 06:51:34

• 回复：请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗? -云开日出时- ♂ (22 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 04:15:42

• 你老公怎找了你这个泼妇 -云开日出时- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 05:28:25

• 是啊，严重同情LZ的老公。 -wxc12345- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 16:12:11

• Come on, guys! -smart- ♂ (299 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:11:42

• Agreed! ---Z--- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:29:26

• agreed, do not be too mean on her. -在水四方- ♀ (184 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 19:17:16

• 太过了，如果孩子丢了，后果不堪设想。 -九月小狗熊的妈妈- ♀ (44 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:25:10

• 夫妻俩都要快点长大. 请律师,别再自找麻烦了. Good luck! -citygirl08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:26:57

• 从我同事的事情给你们的忠告：你老公公司有任何风吹草动，你老公就地一个被裁员！ -sleet- ♀ (274 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:50:17

• sorry.没细看，你们有绿卡了，状况好点！ -sleet- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 07:56:40

• 他俩最好别离婚，再结婚会害了别人。 -昭君出塞因地制宜- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:53:46

• 我很久以前就这么说， 在这里被人家说我变态。 -casinoeye- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 13:41:37

• Your hushand is such an irresponsible person, and -lazy-cat- ♀ (138 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 09:16:24

• 我觉得你们也别光在这儿骂的痛快 -花自飘零- ♀ (613 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 13:40:40

• This is a correct attitude... Ding!! -天地只间- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 15:51:17

• 回复：请问夫妻吵架造成Misdemeaner Child Abuse case in NC 需要请律师吗? -nbca- ♂ (19 bytes) () 09/30/2008 postreply 15:55:54