Re: You will feel sorry to do that when she grow up.

My parents was immigrating to US. I had an outburst of emotion right before they came, it really shocked my parents. They thought I must thought them as a burden.

The reality was I didn't want to see them. I just want to be far and away from them. Their presence always reminds me of what happened and my missed childhood.It is very painful to look back.

I had another emotion outburst about a year ago with my dad. He felt that he did everything for me, it was on good purpose. But he is not the one who have to deal my pain, I told him that he doesn't have any right to decide whether I am happy or not.

For kids that seem advanced in certain areas, often they are even more sensitive, they have to be dealt even more carefully to avoid any emotional problem when they grow up.