Advice needed, thanks!

Last night I had a big fight with my hu*****and. I found out he went to play badminton for about 1~2 hours during working hour frequently these days. My concern is the economy is so bad and his company just laid off 10% employees and will lay off more in next March. Shouldn't he work harder (at least pretend)? Which makes me more angry is he always told me he is busy at work so I did most of the housework and took care of the kid in order to for him to perform "better" to keep his job.
Does man always put his hobby as top priority, even on top of his career and family? Should I just let him do whatever he'd like since everybody said it's impossible to change your spouse?
No bricks, please! I am already very very sad today. :((

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• a brick... -学习种果树- ♂ (66 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:48:15

• 就当他是锻炼身体嘛？ 他的健康跟全家的命运也紧密联系不是？ --realblue-- ♀ (18 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:49:52

• co：就当他是锻炼身体嘛？他的健康跟全家的命运也紧密联系不是？ -虎崽羊妞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:06:25

• 一针见血！ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:29:31

• Relax~ -黑兔妈妈- ♀ (142 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:49:52

• Companies encourage people to do sports during break -毕小珠-- ♀ (272 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:51:58

• 抱抱，如果他自己都不担心工作的话，应该没事 -诃诃- ♀ (50 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:53:57

• 哈哈哈哈哈！你这个太过分！ -jellybean3- ♀ (87 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:01:04

• 啥啥，冤枉俺 -诃诃- ♀ (50 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:04:33

• 哈哈,穿梆啦!我还很景仰了一下这个里里外外一把手的贤惠MM -虎崽羊妞- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:09:11

• 俺真的贲贤惠，豆豆在诽谤俺 -诃诃- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:13:20

• 叫他下班回家多做点家务。 -宝贝的妈- ♀ (120 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:54:58

• 握个手。找到知音了，和我劳工一莫一样。打羽毛球是有罂的 -飘雪的日子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:56:35

• I have the same feeling. -Ms.Cupertino- ♀ (323 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:01:14

• 咣当！第一次听说羽毛球导致婚姻问题！ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:05:32

• 老婆孩子都病了当然该呆在家 -诃诃- ♀ (20 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:06:41

• 你们都是被惯的！ -jellybean3- ♀ (71 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:10:08

• 抱抱！你太宠ＬＧ了。。。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:12:06

• CO：抱抱！你太宠ＬＧ了。。。 -诃诃- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:12:44

• 谢谢，谢谢！见识真贤惠了吧？～～～～～～～～～ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:15:18

• 你应该根他商量好他work out 的时间。 一星期几次说好了。 -gossipgirl8- ♀ (38 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:11:14

• 那我实在是要和你握手了，我劳工提出在我生玩孩子的第二个 -飘雪的日子- ♀ (68 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:12:39

• after the first week of birth, i had to start cooking for him -y2001- ♀ (129 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:41:54

• 不好意思，能不能告诉我哪里去打羽毛球？谢谢！ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 12:58:58

• There are a lot badminton clubs in Bay area. -Ms.Cupertino- ♀ (59 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:02:18

• 奥！谢谢！另外建议你也要运动，不然迟早得忧郁。 -jellybean3- ♀ (24 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:03:41

• 她不会忧郁，有啥也是狂躁 -诃诃- ♀ (12 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:05:29

• 看她成天担心别砍。 -jellybean3- ♀ (42 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:07:30

• there's one in sunnyvale and one in campbell. -宝贝的妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:04:56

• 锻炼身体是好事，该早点告诉你，大家多沟通，别生气。 -britannica- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:05:42

• 我老公，一个星期打四场篮球， -乐乐逍遥- ♀ (64 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:07:12

• 现在确实是裁员的季节，还是小心点好。爱打球，可以下了班以后打。 -天雪- ♀ (4 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:08:48

• 要打就上班打，不花个人时间，又联络关系。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:11:13

• 不瞒您说，俺的老板今天下午就得滚了，他在俺们公司都待了14年啦。 -天雪- ♀ (12 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:14:07

• 别担心，他走不是打球走的。这都是命。 -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:15:14

• 同意 -乐乐逍遥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:19:55

• CO：同意 -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:21:13

• stone! -2488- ♂ (90 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:08:51

• it is common i guess~~ -*天马行空独来独往*- ♀ (188 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:12:27

• I'll be very happy if my LG works out so faithfully... -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:14:18

• Same here! I start to exercise now, 'cos that's the only way -jellybean3- ♀ (31 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:16:44

• Everyone has their own set of problems ... -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:17:38

• 加州怎么这么象中国？ -*天马行空独来独往*- ♀ (113 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:17:06

• 我老公属于机器人那种，工作就是他的爱好：（ -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:18:39

• 哎呀，别的你的品味比我好，可找老公，好像和我也差不多嘛！～～～～ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:19:46

• 我的品味啥时比你好了？比你爱吃是真的：） -毕小珠-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:21:36

• 多好的同学。可以当劳模～～ -*天马行空独来独往*- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:21:07

• 是劳模。本来我也是劳模。可一家2个劳模真是没法过！ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:22:23

• 我一直自诩是劳模，直到嫁给真劳模：） -毕小珠-- ♀ (46 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:24:49

• 好！你拯救了一个玩命的！～～～ -jellybean3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:27:11

• 顶风作案：让他多负担点家务活。 -红尘一笑- ♀ (62 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:25:03

• i know some go golfing and play hockey during work -y2001- ♀ (466 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:28:01

• 锻炼是好事，他如果做之前就坦白，你大概就不会生气了。 -有一天- ♀ (73 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:42:16

• Do you spend more time on the phone/net than his sports? -##^^##- ♂ (316 bytes) () 11/07/2008 postreply 13:55:42