Don't follow your passion

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a16z co-founder Ben Horowitz: “Don’t follow your passion” Ben gives this advice to the Columbia University class of 2015: “Don’t follow your passion. Now I know you’re probably thinking: ‘That’s a really dumb idea because if you poll 1,000 people who are successful, they’ll all say they love what they do. And so the broad conclusion of the world is that if you do what you love, then you’ll be successful.’ But we’re engineers, so we know that might be true. It also might be the case that if you’re successful, you love what you do — you just love being successful, everybody loves you, it’s awesome. So which one is it?” He continues: “The first tricky thing about passions is they’re hard to prioritize. Are you more passionate about math or engineering? Are you more passionate about history or literature? Are you more passionate about video games or K-pop? These are tough decisions. How do you even know? On the other hand, what are you good at? Are you better at math or writing? That’s a much easier thing to figure out. The second thing that’s tricky if you’re going forward in time with this ‘follow your passion’ idea is that what you’re passionate about at 21 is not necessarily what you’re going to be passionate about at 40. Now this is true for boyfriends, as well as career choices. The third issue with following your passion is that you’re not necessarily good at your passion. Has anybody ever watched American Idol? So you know what I’m talking about. Just because you love singing doesn’t mean you should be a professional singer. And then finally, and most importantly, following your passion is a very ‘me-centered’ view of the world. And when you go through life, what you’ll find is that what you take out of the world — money, cars, stuff, accolades — is much less important than what you put into the world. And so my recommendation would be to follow your contribution. Find the thing that you’re great at, put that into the world, contribute to others, help the world be better. That is the thing to follow.” Video source: (2015)
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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也有道理啊~ 那俺可以很自豪地说俺的passion 也正是俺的contribution 所在~ -linda2- 给 linda2 发送悄悄话 linda2 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 16:36:54

是,很大层面上就是视角的差别,其实说的是一回事 -两女宝妈- 给 两女宝妈 发送悄悄话 两女宝妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:06:15

是的是的,因为从小开始就有正反馈了,喜欢的,就会使劲,就会有回报/贡献,然后会更喜欢 ~ -linda2- 给 linda2 发送悄悄话 linda2 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:15:44

类似的问题,找个爱你的人,还是你爱的人结婚? -闲聊一二- 给 闲聊一二 发送悄悄话 (69 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:01:12

感觉对于大众,爱自己的也就是自己爱的,毕竟选择其实不是很多 -两女宝妈- 给 两女宝妈 发送悄悄话 两女宝妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:07:31

嘿嘿,跟主贴里的干擅长的会有拍杏,不是也很像嘛 :) -闲聊一二- 给 闲聊一二 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:11:16

互相爱吧,否则太没意思了。 -amiyumi- 给 amiyumi 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:29:38

那样的幸运者是少数吧?大多数情况,至少有一方是不反感能接受凑合 -闲聊一二- 给 闲聊一二 发送悄悄话 (46 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:39:22

这个问题俺就比较惨了,好在还能凑合,也不指望啥了 ~ -linda2- 给 linda2 发送悄悄话 linda2 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:43:04

不是说:找一个你爱的谈恋爱,然后找一个爱你的结婚。最好 -zhudi- 给 zhudi 发送悄悄话 zhudi 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 18:34:54

毕业典礼鸡汤网上很多。热情鸡汤,奉献鸡汤,Jensen近年也演讲很多,挫折鸡汤 -oryzivore- 给 oryzivore 发送悄悄话 (72 bytes) () 02/28/2025 postreply 17:07:49

Passion 这个东西真的有点玄学,但找到自己擅长的事情做,一般成功率应该会更高一些 -好风景- 给 好风景 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/01/2025 postreply 03:46:52

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