i haven't seem my family for 3 years

来源: y2001 于 2008-09-05 12:29:45 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (536 bytes)

planned to go during Xmas, but the air ticket is 600-700 more then regular time, kids and me will cost 5k. LG said too expensive. I replied I wish to stay home as a housewife, so i can go whenever I want. Then he was very angry and said he cann't let me have the life i want.( i have to work full time to make money for the family, no way to be a housewife.) I wanna cry but after so many years, no tears at all. BTW, his parents fly back and force to stay with us almost every year. I hope this marriage can finish ASAP by miracle.

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• 别太难过.不少中国老公都这样.老婆挣钱还不让花,小气的要命:( -假如爱有天意- ♀ 给 假如爱有天意 发送悄悄话 (49 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:34:34

• i am very sorry for my parents -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (368 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:42:07

• yes exactly and the funny thing -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (130 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:53:14

• Your husband just takes your sacrifice for granted. Same as my s -violet2000- ♀ 给 violet2000 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:40:39

• 别说气话了。他吵架时说的话你也别当真。5000是不便宜 -britannica- ♀ 给 britannica 发送悄悄话 britannica 的博客首页 (178 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:56:47

• thanks -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (145 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:05:48

• Just buy the tickets yourself, why need his permission? -729418- ♀ 给 729418 发送悄悄话 729418 的博客首页 (87 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 12:59:04

• i think its basic repect to talk to him about it -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (70 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:08:23

• At least let your parents visit you, they can come at -729418- ♀ 给 729418 发送悄悄话 729418 的博客首页 (80 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:22:09

• my parents cannot come due to various reasons -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (197 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 14:38:09

• 孩子放家里，你一个人回去不就解决问题了吗？ -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:03:14

• the kids almost forget they have other relatives in China -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:10:08

• if he goes frenquently, does he has any free miles? -fpxjz- ♀ 给 fpxjz 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:27:13

• thanks will ask -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 14:40:52

• 既然都到了想离婚的地步，为什么 -happybaby06- ♀ 给 happybaby06 发送悄悄话 (220 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 13:37:14

• thanks for your suggestion -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (43 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 14:05:18

• talk to him seriously about how important it is for -fpxjz- ♀ 给 fpxjz 发送悄悄话 (152 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 14:08:45

• did talked before, but no answer -y2001- ♀ 给 y2001 发送悄悄话 (190 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 14:34:20

• good point -newca- ♀ 给 newca 发送悄悄话 newca 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/05/2008 postreply 16:50:22

• For sure ask him if he has frequent fly miles. Most airlines -淮海路- ♀ 给 淮海路 发送悄悄话 淮海路 的博客首页 (261 bytes) () 09/06/2008 postreply 18:09:55

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