这是刚刚的聊天记录:
娃: I got an appointment (是和psychiatrist的)
妈: Great!! Do you mind I also join and listen?
娃: Can you? xxth, Xpm
妈: I think I can join as long as you forward me the meeting link, time is fine.
娃: Do you have questions?
妈: 不知你的状况是什么程度,需不需要休学一年调整一下?或减少一些课程减轻压力?
娃: I might end up dropping a course and going down to 13 credits this semester
娃: I don't want to go on a leave of absence though
妈: 就是说,你的状况跟压力有关吗?还是别的跟压力不相关的原因?
娃: I guess it is
妈: Dropping a class is good if you can, just go ahead and request it.
娃: It's slightly related to stress, but i think it's more related to weather
妈: you can drop more if you like, make sure start with the amount that you can handle
娃: If i drop more i won't be considered a full time student
妈: Ok
娃: There's just one class that I haven't been going to in a while and it's making me really anxious
妈: 已经开始一个月了,可以drop吧? 尽快跟学校联系
娃: I think so, I don't think the drop deadline is passed
妈: Great!!
娃: It's not really necessary so I wouldn't mind dropping it
妈: Is that for the minor? Do you want to just focus on one major, instead of double+minor?
娃: I'm already halfway through and I have a lot of time
娃: I'm also pretty ahead in terms of coursework, I count as a junior because I've taken so many credits
妈: Ok, just make sure you don't have too much pressure. You decide. Let us know if anything we can help.
娃: Ok
妈: By the way, there's another website for you to look for therapist, psychologytoday.com,上面不少你那个城市的
娃: Ok
非常感谢大家的讨论,还有在悄悄话里留言的朋友。让我开阔了思路,镇定了许多。这条路很长,我愿意尽我所能帮助娃度过人生路上的沟沟坎坎,等待她成熟的那一天。
祝大家龙年好运!!!