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有没有娃想上MIT的虎爸虎妈?我家娃想上MIT, 我看了下MIT的录取率和要求,这比登天还难啊。 GPA4.2以上, 大赛金牌, 还要有一手绝活。娃认定了MIT, 我也不好泼凉水, 希望在这里跟大家学习怎么准备四年高中, 怎么申请MIT。 先谢谢大家, 祝大家龙年大吉, 梦想都成真!

下面这个十几年前的故事现在没有可能了吧

My husband got into MIT after his guidance counselor and everyone else told him not to bother applying. And that's just it: for many “normal” students, the hardest part about getting in to MIT or another top college/university is simply daring to apply.

For context, my husband’s high school had metal detectors at the doors and fights broke out daily. It offered all of five AP classes; my husband didn't know more existed. His senior year, he had to miss one so that he could go home early every day and babysit his younger siblings. He wasn't in tons of sports or clubs or fancy extracurriculars: he worked in a game store at the mall, cleaning up after punk kids who knocked over display cases. Almost NOBODY from my husband’s high school went to school out of state, and no one saw a reason he should be any different.

Except for my husband, of course—and MIT. What's not “normal” about the man I married is that at 17 he had the guts to take the huge risk of applying. As a teacher who has known many students from similar schools, I now am aware how rare it is for these kids to believe that they belong somewhere like MIT. Schools like this, sadly, reinforce the idea that elite schools are beyond the reach of these students.

But MIT is exceptionally egalitarian for a top school. They're merit-based and they're ridiculously good and spying students who look totally normal but have the fire and skills to succeed. They saw things on my husband’s application that his guidance counselor missed: how he spent his hard earned money buying tools and parts to build drones and go-karts every day in the garage. How babysitting his younger sister every day helped him become incredibly mature and responsible. How DARING to apply to MIT when no one in his school and done so in years suggested he had the fire and willpower to succeed there.

Ten years later, my husband has an aerospace degree from what is arguably the top engineering school in the world, an ungodly amount of debt, and has made some of the best friends anyone could ask for, with whom he started his own company. He's still an incredibly normal person who spends most of his out-of-office time doing what anyone else would do. At this point in our lives that means chores, errands, and video games.

The moral I draw from his experience is that anyone who wants to apply to MIT should do so, and especially those students who seem, or think they are, “normal.” MIT will have to turn down lots of these people, because yes, admissions at highly selective schools is somewhat of a crapshoot. But they will also select lots of ordinary high schoolers from around the world who they understand have what it takes to be part of that community. And desire is a huge part of it. So if you really want to be at MIT, go for it!!

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这。。。Aim high很好。哈哈。 -randomness- 给 randomness 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:34:07

拿到IMO金牌 -成功的会飞的猪- 给 成功的会飞的猪 发送悄悄话 (19 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:35:14

进USAXXO camps,RSI,STS Top 40,大概率被MIT录取。 -BeLe- 给 BeLe 发送悄悄话 BeLe 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:37:36

先給自己設定一個小目標, 比如USAPHO qualify -炒瓜子- 给 炒瓜子 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:37:57

女娃稍易,但女娃想hard mode不多。你快推推 -成功的77- 给 成功的77 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:41:42

男娃哈 -梦想MIT- 给 梦想MIT 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:49:11

我只能说,MIT真是个好学校,爱它没错!:)加油! -HappyWed- 给 HappyWed 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:44:01

进MIT毕竟单纯,就是学科竞赛成绩好,加上学校排名靠前。 -youtub- 给 youtub 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:44:37

女娃呢如何鉴定 -HappyWed- 给 HappyWed 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:45:34

我们这里去年录的两女娃,AIME都没有进,一个只有SSP,除了其他啥也没有 -麻辣串串- 给 麻辣串串 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:52:00

可能有别的大奖你不知道,不做数学竞赛也不学数学 -wd6- 给 wd6 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 14:25:17

我知道的 -youtub- 给 youtub 发送悄悄话 (137 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:53:13

练击剑吧,有小中用击剑进MIT -ltb72- 给 ltb72 发送悄悄话 ltb72 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:45:22

我认识的一小中男是靠击剑进MIT的,现在他妹妹也走的这条路。 -麻辣串串- 给 麻辣串串 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:54:44

如果跟人家拼不了竞赛,就找教授做科研发文章去吧。做它个高中四年,没功劳也有苦劳。 -phoenix05- 给 phoenix05 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:47:34

我知道Science这级别上发文章的连早申康都没进呢,这招不好使了 -Joyjoy_北美66- 给 Joyjoy_北美66 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:51:00

多弄两篇。 -phoenix05- 给 phoenix05 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:53:45

再得个诺贝尔奖应当机会大增 -东西南北衫- 给 东西南北衫 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:25:24

嗯,拿Nobel, 直接当发考题,还申请个xx :) -DukeAB- 给 DukeAB 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:27:58

没参加过任何竞赛 咋整 -highschool2- 给 highschool2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:50:00

顺其自然,我家高三结束前没想过申请,如果EA顺利也不会申请,以为自己不合格。结果录取了 -wd6- 给 wd6 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:50:40

这是低调的牛娃 -highschool2- 给 highschool2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:51:00

尽力做到自己最好,不去想结果,往往会有惊喜 -Joyjoy_北美66- 给 Joyjoy_北美66 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:55:00

好优秀! -梦想MIT- 给 梦想MIT 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:59:27

MIT要AMC/AIME成绩,她都没有。 -wd6- 给 wd6 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:04:22

我给个点建议 -whatever2012- 给 whatever2012 发送悄悄话 (673 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:53:16

谢谢! -梦想MIT- 给 梦想MIT 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:59:07

同意出生时的智商决定,但高中的multivariable calculus真的不难。 -youtub- 给 youtub 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:01:20

我家十年级这么课就拿了A+,男娃没用,女娃可能有用 -麻辣串串- 给 麻辣串串 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:09:21

一点不难 -成功的三少爷- 给 成功的三少爷 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:10:26

multivariable calculus跟calculus没嘛区别不算啥 -成功的三少爷- 给 成功的三少爷 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:10:05

这就是华人卷的典型思路呗。 -windyLL- 给 windyLL 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:40:33

孩子有梦想, 父母坚定支持孩子追梦, 同是要找好保底的学校,加油! -小小试一下水- 给 小小试一下水 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 09:57:40

娃有梦想很好! -天意悠悠- 给 天意悠悠 发送悄悄话 (192 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:16:58

加油 -oops_yz- 给 oops_yz 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:24:41

加油,有梦想--路虽远,行必至! -DukeAB- 给 DukeAB 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 10:39:09

你家娃觉悟得早,可以冲一把。 -TigerLady- 给 TigerLady 发送悄悄话 TigerLady 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 11:28:41

给你提供2个网站,从9年级做起,让孩子仔细琢磨 -Mich_Agent- 给 Mich_Agent 发送悄悄话 (985 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 11:38:47

不错, 俺先拿去用了。 -twoboyss- 给 twoboyss 发送悄悄话 twoboyss 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 12:23:41

Football 特招,老印 MIT . SAT 1600 -UTRHYS- 给 UTRHYS 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 19:49:57

登天肯定还是更难啊 -cczz- 给 cczz 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/09/2024 postreply 20:31:00

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