It's not about ring, not about diamond, it's about the value

Not $ value, but how the boy values the lady.

订婚戒should in general be 2 months of boy's salary.

是一个重视和仪式感的衡量

Why 2 months? Because it's serious enough, and it's quite achievable. 

If a boy can not save up 2 month's of salary, the future would be worrisome too. 

 

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• 二手的钻戒卖不到1/10的价格，保啥值呀？大萧条时指望着卖了它换面包，只怕还换不到 -gladys- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:00:34

• 这是消费，不是保值 -beachlver- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:01:59

• 还有这个讲究？第一次听说 :-) -pct- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:01:06

• 男子三个月的工资买订婚戒指 -Bebe54321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:03:27

• 也是卖钻石的放出来的风啦，没必要跟 -gladys- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:05:56

• 对，还说要是税前的，这个绝对是钻石商的广告，大厂的SWE, 三个月那还不得4～5万了，我看大厂小年轻只花个7～8千买，用 -曲艺- ♂ (46 bytes) () 11/29/2023 postreply 13:11:49