He feels he is doing all these for your sake

even though he is very good at it.

You have to somehow convince him that he is doing all these for his own sake. He has to be responsible for his future, not you.

Once he has a job, initiative is everything. 

 

 

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• 可能真相了，老大说过他做的一切都是为了我。我反问难道不是为了他自己？ -yangyang08- ♀ (62 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:17:37

• 哎呀，都找到真相了，这不正好问问他自己想做什么，他希望你怎么做，真正尊重倾听孩子的想法，而不是把你的想法强加给他。 -ShirleyKay- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 18:26:40