今天女儿给我写的信,我和她爸爸给女儿的回复。

今天女儿的语文课有个minor grade,类似于quiz。结果班上都考得不好。我女儿也只得了60分。

然后语文老师说:“凡是得分低于70的,自己写信给家长,然后CC我。”然后听到教室里一片鬼哭狼嚎,很多亚裔孩子知道要通知家长,都吓傻了。然后语文老师又对女儿说:“你一定要通知到你妈妈。 言下之意,你有个亚裔虎妈。她会fix your grade。

这是女儿写给我和她爹的信:

Dear Parents, 
 
In Mr.B's class, I have gotten a 60 on one of my assignments. The main reason I got a 60 is because I have lacked doing work on the assignment. Before I was with a 91 in the grade book. Now I'm having a 90 in the grade book. I have worked on it at home but with my swim, homework from other classes, and my parents. It's hard to catch up. I do get class time to work on it, but as Mr.B states "Y'all dilly dally"  which I do, I haven't done a lot of work on the assignment. I promise to start working and quit talking to all my classmates. 
 
 
这是我写给女儿的信,当时是手机发的。也不知道这个回复她老师也能看到。
 
You have plenty of time to finish the assignment. Just stop talking to your friends on a daily basis. Finish your assignments first and then have your phone calls. It is all about the time management. Remember your leisure time on the phone is the first thing to go if you cannot find time to do your assignments.
 
 
 
这是他爹的回复:
 
Thank you for your note explaining the low score you have received in class.  It is important to get ahead of bad news and communicate as soon as possible.  Facing adversity directly and timely takes courage and self-discipline.
 
As you know your Mother and I value education, and we expect you to endeavour to learn with focus and tenacity.  Learning is not scoring high or getting a good grade, learning is understanding the topic and material at a deep level.  Grades typically take care of themselves once you focus on learning and obtaining a deep understanding of the subject.
 
Your Mother and I have great faith in you and know you can achieve great things if you can obtain the self-discipline required.  Keep at it and I know soon there will be an email to celebrate a high score.
 
感觉LD的思想政治工作做得不错啊,比我强多了.
 

 

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好爸爸 -yzhl888- 给 yzhl888 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:29:30

爸爸写得很好,赞 -gladys- 给 gladys 发送悄悄话 gladys 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:32:12

惨,这是几年级?我女儿得过一次物理八十,哭的死去活来,后来补救好了, -floweryrose- 给 floweryrose 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:39:40

6年纪的ELA和humanity(历史),要分析句式结构,相当于8年纪ELA -Pilsung- 给 Pilsung 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:46:41

那没事,不是高中不计成绩 -floweryrose- 给 floweryrose 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:49:42

老师说这门课几乎没人拿A -Pilsung- 给 Pilsung 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:49:54

这啥老师啊?打击六年级小娃?要我就跟娃说不用管这门课多成绩。但是需要多读多写多发言 -randomness- 给 randomness 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:58:26

我也是这个想法。多写多学还是没坏处。她这个是accelerate ELA,整个六年级只有一个班,20多个孩子。 -Pilsung- 给 Pilsung 发送悄悄话 (204 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:06:37

哎,我们这边学区课没有ELA快班 -两女宝妈- 给 两女宝妈 发送悄悄话 两女宝妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:18:39

我们初中老师,稍微难点考试,家长就开始投诉,说孩子压力山大 -tax2- 给 tax2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:24:57

我们高中放 -floweryrose- 给 floweryrose 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:03:50

这爹的情商比娘好了一万倍呀。 -其乐无穷- 给 其乐无穷 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:42:58

老美说话,是有化腐朽为神奇的本事。啥毛病都能先夸出一朵花的本事。哈哈 -Pilsung- 给 Pilsung 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:48:12

明显是中西文化差异,你是让孩子分分秒秒都学习,做课外活动,马不停蹄 -tax2- 给 tax2 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:43:27

她哪里分分钟学习,回到家一半时间跟朋友手机聊天。所以我才说不是没时间做作业,而是找借口。 -Pilsung- 给 Pilsung 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:45:06

这个正常,孩子们都是放学后玩的,你家和白人比已经很好了,你多夸她 -tax2- 给 tax2 发送悄悄话 (33 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:48:09

我只是说心理战术,孩子们的教练说啥都是好话,孩子喜欢听,也喜欢和他畅所欲言 -tax2- 给 tax2 发送悄悄话 (63 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:50:12

同意, 我也 说话不行 -yzhl888- 给 yzhl888 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:56:10

赞!非常用心投入。很见个性。-:) -有言- 给 有言 发送悄悄话 有言 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:53:01

不得不承认老美这反面真的是做的好。同事老美就连吹毛求疵也让你特舒坦, -tidytiger- 给 tidytiger 发送悄悄话 tidytiger 的博客首页 (51 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 16:59:38

这个老爹和我的风格挺像 :) -DukeAB- 给 DukeAB 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:03:05

你情商好高,难怪娶到聪明漂亮的老婆。 -tidytiger- 给 tidytiger 发送悄悄话 tidytiger 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:15:06

你们学校老师还挺负责的 -两女宝妈- 给 两女宝妈 发送悄悄话 两女宝妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:17:05

你怎么是妈妈呢?你明明是个男的?因为你的网名和网名上的性别符号都是男的?怎么回事,是个彩虹族? -hhtt- 给 hhtt 发送悄悄话 hhtt 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 17:45:18

我喜欢你老公的回复!典型的三明治方式!哈哈哈 -加州阳光123- 给 加州阳光123 发送悄悄话 加州阳光123 的博客首页 (240 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 18:34:28

爸爸是鼓励为主。。 -不常冒泡- 给 不常冒泡 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/20/2023 postreply 19:54:38

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