Just consult an american colleage regarding Startstart' daughter

来源: A_Momy 于 2008-02-20 08:01:57 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (912 bytes)

my colleague said she can sue the school but wont get anything of it. he said it is more a case between kids but not startstart with school. if there was a mistake made the teacher, that was not sending startstart's daughter to nurse and got some ice on it.

Very importantly, he said bump shows up later not at the time when accident happens. It is exactly what I told startstart. It is the reason why the teacher ignored the poor girl later. she was not so cauitous to check her out later.

There was one person could help startstart if she really want to pursue this. That is the gym teacher. He, by startstart, obviously noticed the bump and communicated with the teacher. Startstart may want to find out what he will say about this case and start from there.

But it is not a right mentality to just assume the teacher purposely ignore the girl's bump. No one really buys it.

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• 最重要的是要校长,老师教育那个孩子,道歉. 如果那孩子不很小的话. -我来说说- ♂ 给 我来说说 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:12:51

• If the case was not so messy made by startstart, displining -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (495 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:19:40

• 你的意思是鼓励小孩撒谎了，如果是我的孩子干的，我会主动让她道歉 -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:27:20

• not encouraging lying. but under such pressure, I would not -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (318 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:32:46

• 是啊，这样我很担心自己的女儿，尽管她还小，都不知该怎样教育她了 -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:36:25

• You are right in general. But when the other party becomes vicio -noproblemo- ♀ 给 noproblemo 发送悄悄话 (709 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:39:41

• 同意这个。淡化一下，反而利於学校解决，能达到教育和道歉的目的 -春江水- ♀ 给 春江水 发送悄悄话 春江水 的博客首页 (108 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:29:29

• 我在想, 如果孩子被打成脑震荡,应该找打人者而不是老师付重责. -我来说说- ♂ 给 我来说说 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:14:34

• 绝对不能没任何道歉就完了. 老师,孩子的道歉不算过分.奶奶的,欺负人啊! -我来说说- ♂ 给 我来说说 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:15:43

• 如果发生在校园里，学校负第一责任，何况都是未成年人。 -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:17:31

• you are kidding. was virgina tech was responsilbe for the mass k -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (68 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:21:27

• 好像是你比较激动喔。VT的家属不都在告学校吗，你不知道？ -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:33:07

• It is a free world. anybody can sue any body.. haha -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:37:36

• What is Momy stands for, may I ask? -20146- ♀ 给 20146 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:44:45

• No idea. given that way.. -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:47:02

• 关键是哪个孩子平常也欺负她的女儿（我都觉得很心疼，想哭） -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (81 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:17:28

• that is completely understandable. -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (261 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:24:34

• 我想start并不想得到什末，只想让自己的女儿不再害怕 -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:30:04

• I agree with it. The best thing she should do now is -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (136 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:34:51

• 这些建议不错，看来我要先给自己补课了，从我做起 -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:38:54

• Donot nee to worry. it is reality but most kids do grow healthil -A_Momy- ♀ 给 A_Momy 发送悄悄话 (126 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:44:19

• 你说得也对，不要闹得太僵了 -贴心她妈- ♀ 给 贴心她妈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 08:34:05

• 说得很对。关键是让孩子和bully的孩子分开。让学校知道， -三月花开- ♀ 给 三月花开 发送悄悄话 三月花开 的博客首页 (82 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 09:04:56

• 是这么个理。老师不管不问，任由孩子在伤痛中哭泣 -井底的猫- ♀ 给 井底的猫 发送悄悄话 (745 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 09:07:00

• 怎么94搞不明白，争一定要上法庭吗？这事上不了法庭！甭操那心了！ -jellybean3- ♀ 给 jellybean3 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/20/2008 postreply 09:25:49

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