一个烙印女说普娃变的相对成功的一些习惯。Discipline很重要,躺平的人一般没有Discipline

来源: mjnew 2023-02-13 10:10:40 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (8111 bytes)

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So, how did he study to to be able to clear some of the toughest exams in the country?

  1. He is very disciplined. We have been married for a little less than a year and in those 300 days, he woke up at the same time every day, ate at the same time, went to play badminton everyday. He showered twice a day even in winters. Washed his own clothes and kept everything in place without fail each and every single day (I am just opposite)
  2. I have never seen him snoozing alarm even if he has to go for inspection early morning or late at night. Never heard him saying “I am tired”.
  3. He loves studying. He studies still. He teaches me maths because he loves it and he wanted to change my view that maths suck (I have actually started to like maths). He is not one of those who was pushed into engineering. He did it because he loves it.

So, interest and discipline are the most important qualities of a top student.

Next, he taught me the best way to memorise anything. Most of the top students study like this. I wish I knew this before, I would have been an officer myself. Well it is never too late. Anyway, what he did was

Whenever he picked up any new book.

  • He skimmed through the entire book in 1–2 days and made a mind map of what he would be studying.
  • He then divided all the topics as per his schedule so that he could complete it within the stipulated time frame. He set daily, weekly, monthly, yearly goal. The happiness of conquering a goal kept him motivated.
  • After completing a topic, he scribbled down whatever he remembered or acted like he is explaining it to someone else. This made him realise the grey areas in his knowledge.
  • He kept first hour of his new day for revising what he studied a day before. So, on day 2 he would quickly revise what he studied on day 1, on day 3, he would revise what he studied on day 1 and day 2, on the last day of the week he would revise the entire week's study.
  • On the last day of the week, he solved questions related to the topics he completed in that week. He would do the same at the end of every month.
  • He solved as many questions as he can and wrote as many tests as he can.

So, revise, revise, revise, write, write, write is his mantra.

His hard work, smartness and discipline paid off beautifully.

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烙印那种天天为公司事琢磨的Discipline, 估计没几个老中能做到 -mjnew- 给 mjnew 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:11:51

太累了,老中崇尚以小博大以弱胜强一劳永逸 -fakegreen- 给 fakegreen 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:13:48

又来了,天天政治学习:批评与自我批评……小时候的trauma, PTSD ? -成功的兔- 给 成功的兔 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:20:55

哈哈哈,真是的呢 -两女宝妈- 给 两女宝妈 发送悄悄话 两女宝妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:22:28

哈哈,这个紫檀的,没人有Discipline, 否则谁会天天来这,所以无法理解 -mjnew- 给 mjnew 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:25:25

推己及人 -成功的兔- 给 成功的兔 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:28:43

要是华人这么做,另一套说词:推的,机器人,就会学习,怎么能没有体育…… -成功的兔- 给 成功的兔 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:28:09

难怪印度这么多宗教,这种都是Discipline的东西,印度人看样子适合做这些 -mjnew- 给 mjnew 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:24:35

早就有了, 大名鼎鼎的衡水中学。 :-) -WaldenPond- 给 WaldenPond 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:14:39

进大学后,和大学后还能这样的,基本没人。小时候被榨干了 -mjnew- 给 mjnew 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:26:07

Discipline挺重要的,娃的体育club教练就很强调这个,还要打考勤呢。 -qqdragon- 给 qqdragon 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:43:19

确实就是这样,持之以恒,铁棒磨成针 -HappyWed- 给 HappyWed 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 11:09:36

并不是所以印裔都自律,不少印一代到是转空子占便宜的手段一流 -washer1008- 给 washer1008 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 11:30:44

我们高中不都是这样过来的么 -纽约故事- 给 纽约故事 发送悄悄话 纽约故事 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 16:29:37

不同之处是要讲出来,所以烙印比我们会讲。he is explaining it to someone else. -纽约故事- 给 纽约故事 发送悄悄话 纽约故事 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 16:33:38

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