bingo...my point exactly...

as you've said 如果想要婚姻，还是先用脑子冷静想想才好, and my point: a cooled headed picking and choose gives you a better chance for a good marriage.

However, "a good marriage" is a priority for some, but not necessarily a priority for others...some only want to live in that feverish moment of love blindly and unreasonably...and to the heck of the future and good marriage...I wouldn't say those are naive...well, actually, I admire those who could gamble everything in life for the sake of love...

Do I want this happen to my child?...no...

Do I want to read a beautiful love story like that?...you bet...

As to your point of "encouraging child to love at 16,"...haha.....I honestly don't think you can encourage anyone to fall in love...some could fall in love as young as 10, some never fall in love...

A person can TRY to fall in love...as to actually in love...that needs chemistry...in another word, luck :)

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