when is the right time ?

When is the right time to let my d to sleep by her own?
She's 3.5 now. And she starts sleeping with us from 2.
Before that, she slept well alone since 6 months old.
Yesterday I tried to let her sleep alone, she's fine
with the idea -- think she's a big kid now. I put a mattress
next to our big bed and she'll sleep there in the same room
with us until she wants to move back to her own room. That's
my plan, but the only problem is her daddy doesn't want to do
that. He wants to sleep with her, inbetween us. He said this
is his only time to spend with his daughter, he thinks I ruined
his only chance to play with our daughter. Well, he's very busy
and work every night till 2 am. I know he's a good hu*****and and
daddy. But I think he should find some quality time with the kid too,
at least before she goes to bed. And I also want to sleep with
him, without anyone(even my daughter) in between -- I think this
is not a uncommon request from a wife. Am I right? Now he's angry
with me and I am angry with him :<<

What should I do now?

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• your hb is right, unless you -baydad- ♂ (32 bytes) () 06/09/2005 postreply 11:24:25

• but where are those "child sho -meiyoubimi- ♀ (512 bytes) () 06/09/2005 postreply 11:42:12

• 3岁半真的该自己睡了 -家有美珍珠- ♀ (105 bytes) () 06/09/2005 postreply 11:40:21

• it's time for her to sleep on -yini- ♀ (941 bytes) () 06/09/2005 postreply 11:42:39

• well, if he works until 2am -xxxxxxxxxx- ♀ (256 bytes) () 06/09/2005 postreply 12:03:58

• 你和你丈夫都有道理 -粉红百合- ♂ (247 bytes) () 06/10/2005 postreply 04:59:14