回复：公校

I do have a few comments. Some of them might be too harsh, so take it with a grain of salt.

First, regarding the teacher. I would suggest to keep observing what she had to say in the next couple of months, the best thing to do is to jot down the conversations with her almost verbatim but objectively. The reason that I am saying this is at the beginning, I thought you might be the problem (over-reacting), but reading some of her comments on how asian parents like to put more weight on academics instead of behavior makes me think that she is "STEREOTYPING" big time. There is nothing wrong with that (well, to certain degree), we do it all the time, but as an educator, she should know better. That to me says she is not very qualified, but you need to give it some time, don't jump out as soon as you sense something that is not your cup of tea. Patience is a virtue. As a parent who also has a 1st grader, I can totally understand your concern, but if you keep worrying stuff like this, I can't imagine what you will do later in your kid's long journey of education. Take it easy, I said this before, kids are more resilient than what we give them credit for. This is not to say that you shouldn't care, when it comes to basic principle of education, you don't want to back off a bit, but now is not the time.

Good luck.