儿子最近来了这么一句,直接被我拍回去了:"我和你妈为你来到这个世界提供了你的身体,你的灵魂选择了这个身体,同时也选择了我们做你的父母。我们没有选择你。You came to this world with a purpose. And you, youself only, will find out what that purpose is. We only help you to get ready to go out there to find it. If you failed in this life, you will come back again as human or something else. It is your own choice and your own responsibility. Now, shut up and clean your room."
我们一家人都有信仰,儿子接受起来很容易。并且我们从小就教育他要感恩。所以儿子好像听明白了。做父母的要时时刻刻帮助小孩子树立正确(这个比较主观)的人生观。这是做父母的责任。