ZT：Allow your child to blossom

By Sadhguru

“The first thing to do when bringing up a child is not to influence your child's mind with your distorted mind. That is the first step you need to take. Yes, a child can become exposed to many other rotten minds -- the possibility is very much there, because rotten minds are everywhere in the world. You cannot totally isolate your child from that. But you can at least make sure your child is not influenced by the distortion of your mind.”

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/parenting-advice_b_1928256/amp

 

所有跟帖： 

• 放任自流的前提是孩子具备正常的心智。所以放手前先弄清楚你的孩子是否具备相对成熟的心智。 -WXCTEATIME- ♂ (272 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 06:29:36

• 自己不影响自己的孩子，等外人影响？而且也不可能，孩子一生下来就在不断的观察学习，除非自己不管孩子， -N.- ♀ (68 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:11:10

• 左派之谬论。 -borisg- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:22:36

• 是啊，同看不懂。觉得自己不好？出钱出力养别人想法的孩子？晕 -成功的兔- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:35:56

• 文章assume 父母思想都是distorted. -545f- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:05:34

• 发现老印出的心灵导师巨多，怪不得平常老印也是特能侃 -Tufa- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:22:06

• "distorted mind"??? 说谁呢 -白骨先生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:28:25

• 很多父母都挺正常的，都极力在帮孩子。主要是培养孩子学会自己思考和做决定的能力 -houselover- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:41:04