You cannot expect too much from the school. Check your local res

for private schools only for kids with special needs. Also, parents of the special needs children can and should become therapists for their children. You can integrate the therapy into their daily life/activity. It is quite important especially when the children are young. I personally will be very cautious to use Meds to control those symptoms unless kids have other nuerological problems such as seizures. Impact of those drugs on a developing young brain is not well known and studied. Just my 2cents.