he needs to be a good follower first. So once he becomes a leader, he would know what his followers should and should not do.
Teacher's instructions should be followed. Why did he think the book was boring? Did he make an effort to find out why the teacher chose this book for him? What he should have done is to read the book and discuss what he learned with the teacher, and then thank the teacher for her help.
It may feel good to do whatever he likes, but there is a price to pay. Good things that should have come his way ended up somewhere else, you wouldn't even know.
Learning at his age is not only to acquire knowledge, but more importantly is to discipline the mind, so that when he gets to high school, he can handle the work load.
Teachers have lesson plans to finish since they are responsible to the principal. An unruly pupil makes it that harder to do. Tell your son to make it easier for the teacher, who, just like everyone else, is there so that she can have a roof over her head and meals for her own kids.
For a ten-year old, it's time to teach him to understand what others want. He may not want or need to accommodate, but he must know first. Otherwise, EQ is too hard to get.
No need to call the teacher. But if you have to, start by thanking her for choosing the book.
