yes mom is a very considerate mom and she also has a very strong character. No one can persuade her to do anything if she does not want to. She is strong religious person. She believes that my birth place is a very special place, a place keeps our family healthy and prosperous . Mom thinks she is and has to be the housekeeper and founder of that birth place. I guess that is one of the main reasons why she does not want to move into the apartment that we bought for her.