ZT..Why I Never Tell My Son He Is Smart

Growth mindset vs fixed mindset.

 

Praise your child for his struggles, for his tenacity, for his grit, for trying new things, for making mistake.

Praise your child for his sensibility of others.

 

Praise your child for his silly creativity.

 

Praise your child for agreeing with you in going to movies with you, walking the dog together...

 

The following is from Khan Academy...

The learning myth: Why I'll never tell my son he's smart (article) | Khan Academy https://www.khanacademy.org/talks-and-interviews/conversations-with-sal/a/the-learning-myth-why-ill-never-tell-my-son-hes-smart

 

 

 

所有跟帖： 

• 你说也没用，孩子不信的：） --百科-- ♀ (271 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 04:43:51

• 百班一天只睡3小时的？ -Tepper- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 04:44:28

• 或十三的小时，LOL --百科-- ♀ (219 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 04:47:08

• 还在想百班可能回中国了。 -小团圆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:04:46

• 在重看first wife club，20年真的差太多了 --百科-- ♀ (223 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:19:14

• 没看过，有时间找找看，她是前妻怎么会在里面？她可能肠子都悔青了。我看川的先在太太很好不参政。 -小团圆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:36:05

• 就是一个镜头，是演自己，名人常干这种事儿。我当年就看过了，现在重看感触满多的 --百科-- ♀ (67 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:38:19

• 应该很有意思，我去找来看。 -小团圆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:42:22

• 信圣诞老人的时候还行。不过人都是顺毛驴，说不假的好话总有用。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 04:45:46

• 巧了，昨天老大刚嘱咐我 这事。 -家有2宝- ♀ (622 bytes) () 12/20/2017 postreply 05:10:24