回复：回复：回复：谢谢。是理想化了。或许这样去注意，去努力总会益

When he doesn't want her, he abandend her, when he wants her, he grab her back, everything is based on his needs, he has love, he loves himself, the love is not toward Mei.
Obviously you understanding of 'LOVE' is the same as He's, you have the same principle of life. I just realized there is no point to argue with people that has totally different point view of life.