transgender

Son's valentine from gr. 2-7 and best girl friend buddy from gr.2-12, is a young man in law school now.

She was a pretty and frail girl like a japanese doll, although she is a mix of chinese and jewish. Both her parents are my friends and they met in H (underg.)

I feel a bit sad when i heard the news, but my son didn't think it's a big deal at all, it dosn't change anything...

I went to collect all the pictures of her as a young girl, and those pictures become precious to me...

I imagine i would be a little nervous when she/he comes to eat dinner with us, because i don't want to look and talk like a "dinosaur" in her/his eyes.

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• Oh well, you guys have never found anything when she was young? -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:14:25

• 你是不领行情啊：） --百科-- ♀ (125 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:17:04

• yeah, it's a different world now. --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:25:48

• 但这个是真正做手术呀。受的罪大了，不是真的谁干这个? -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:26:34

• transgender不用做手术的， transsexual 才是 --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:28:22

• transgender 是统称吧？包括transsexual。不过如果没做手术的，那说不定过一阵子又变回来了。lol -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:30:22

• yeah right, put on a switch. :)) --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:35:13

• tomboy personality, i like that in a girl a lot. --worldance-- ♀ (120 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:19:32

• 哦，那可能是真的了。 -CirrusCloud- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:28:25

• 我也已经觉得no big deal了，可能这些年也看多了，下一代孩子流行这个 --百科-- ♀ (131 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:15:24

• 上周五看完球和二丫一起漫步五大道, 二丫告诉我刚才打招呼的原来是她球队队友，刚变男孩了。对孩子来说真的无所谓的。 -教导l- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:23:21

• nod，下一代已经完全习以为常了：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:30:04

• 她学校已经发通知允许变性男娃进女厕所了，问二丫不怪异么，答说学校里没事，在外面成年男性进来就有点害怕。 -教导l- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:31:59

• 是啊，同学什么不怕，陌生人能不怕吗？那以后出门不上厕所啦？ -lao3ma1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:43:53

• 女厕所都有二道门吧？ 以前即使不允许，也挡不住坏人进去啊。 -教导l- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:45:21

• In that case, no doors can stop bad guys regardless. --worldance-- ♀ (258 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 11:00:59

• 坏人进去不是可以抓吗？现在不行了呀！上次Fremont, 警察不是说不能管吗？ -lao3ma1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 11:22:15

• 坏人进去不做坏事抓他/她干嘛？ 做了坏事照抓啊。 -教导l- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 11:41:20

• put on more security camaras and alarms... --worldance-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 11:45:20

• 这个我也早说过，学校里没什么，在外面孩子小的时候父母看着点儿：） --百科-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 11:57:59

• thanks, "he" will be a good lawyer, probablly can't resist to --worldance-- ♀ (77 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:32:01

• Fun home musical show about gays life. -中国心中国人- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/07/2016 postreply 10:57:39