孩子被诬陷偷衣服后续

下午说了孩子被诬陷偷衣服

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感谢坛子里的朋友给建议，给老师写了一封信，尽可能保持风度和态度：

Dear Mrs. Mxxx, 

I am sorry to bother you, but last Friday Mxxx(孩子名） was upset from school for being accused of stealing a purple Nike hoodie by another girl in the class. Mxxx doesn't want to give me the name of the girl because she doesn't "want her to be in trouble". The purple Nike hoodie, as in the picture (taken by her teacher in the past years) I am attaching in this E-mail, is Mxxx's favorite. She has worn it to school so many times on different occasions, and I even got her a pair of matching pants!

I totally understand losing items at school can be very disturbing, but it doesn't make it right to accuse other innocent people of "stealing". Mxxx told me that that girl had spreading rumors among the girls that her sweater has got stolen and she should have "labeled it". I have showed full support to Mxxx at home and  let her know I am proud of her for being a big girl in this frustrating time, but I am really concerned with her situation at school. 

Best regards,

XXX

孩子老师很快就回信了：

Good Afternoon Mrs. XXXX,

I am so sorry for the confusion. I am aware that another girl in the class had misplaced her purple Nike hoodie, and I had even checked the Lost and Found in the cafeteria for her.  I was not aware that Mxxx was being accused of taking the hoodie.  I agree that it is wrong for others to accuse someone unfairly of stealing, and I'm sorry that the focus has been on Mxxx. I understand how upsetting this can be.  I will do some checking and get to the bottom of this, so we can put an end to the rumors. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I will be in touch. 

Mrs. Mxxx

大家觉着等几天看看学校的反应，再说？孩子现在在家里情绪都正常，外表恬静自然，但是她是一个很单纯，又喜欢把很多事情都放在心里的人，我还不清楚她是不是真的不在乎，还是逞强。她说反正大多数时间她都是和她的数学小组一起的，很愉快（这孩子有点nerdy）。

所有跟帖： 

• i think it is a good ending. Not necessary to go further. -Smart- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 19:46:13

• 明天如果老师没消息，后天跟进一下。 -N.- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 20:12:47

• 大家给老师或学校写email，都以sorry开头？ -YuccaPalm- ♂ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 20:17:33

• 就是客气一下，显示我们是有教养的人家。就像和人说“excuse me"一样的呀 -小美0902- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 20:21:48

• 再想想，我觉得你说的也在理，下次类似情况，我会说，I want to bring an important issue to y -小美0902- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 20:26:18

• 这个可以不追究，不过孩子没有朋友，被孤立，家长应该重视，不要小看小团体 -tax2- ♀ (95 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 21:07:24

• 我女儿的班里今年就转进了一个新同学，她的其他兄弟姐妹读公立学校，她因为在公校被bully,转到私立学校 -tax2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 21:10:00

• 现在不清楚孩子被bully，还是对方真的丢了衣服。 -小美0902- ♀ (580 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 21:19:05

• 其实孩子学习好也容易遭人嫉妒，还是要帮助她多交些朋友，年龄越大，女生越mean,我们这里有15岁女孩被bully，自杀的 -tax2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 21:27:51

• 这个好像老师都说是丢了，老师还帮着找不是么 --百科-- ♀ (131 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 22:34:48

• 非校服的衣服也要写名字吗？我就只有校服上写的，现在看都要写一下。 -happyheart99- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/27/2016 postreply 05:08:17

• I would like to bring this to your attention... -tiantianlu02- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/27/2016 postreply 08:18:35

• 同意，写sorry太submissive了，应该是assertive, but not aggressive -lovestoryfan- ♀ (41 bytes) () 09/26/2016 postreply 22:14:57

• 你脾气也太好了，孩子被这么冤枉，你还说sorry，早该带着照片证据找老师校长约谈了。这种bully绝对要制止，孩子多冤啊! -大姐姐小妹妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/27/2016 postreply 08:19:40