俺就是不愿意付出的，懒

Living in a Chinese-Indian village is not easy.  Especially if I 俺就是不愿意付出的，懒. 

I need a life myself. 

It does hurt a child's esteem when they see they are falling behind comparing their peers. But to support their activities take a lot of parents' time.

Quite often, there is a trade-off between the success of a parent and child - where you spend your time, and how you spend your time.

The competition to Elite colleges might kill children's curiosity and independence if we stress too much on their success. 

 

所有跟帖： 

• 难道父母和子女的“success”不是高度关联的？我对你的结论非常迷茫。 -壮士- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:34:48

• If you define the success of a parent -Smilee- ♀ (271 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:40:06

• 还是让数据说话吧，你们说话喜欢结论，不喜欢证据： -壮士- ♂ (226 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:44:13

• Genes! and attitude -Smilee- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:46:56

• You are going off on a tangent. -壮士- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:50:53

• 我这点比较聪明，都是参加校队，学校大bus管接送呀 -Mom2016- ♀ (103 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:37:41

• 轻松长大的孩子快乐有有后劲。支持放养有机娃。 -千金妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/23/2016 postreply 10:39:01