Social dept has the incentive to take your child. If they don't have cases, they will face budget cut and lay offs. So the parents really need to take the issue seriously, and don't assume what you said.
Wether or not "是否真爱孩子" is not the judging point for them to take your child while physical abuse(and mental abuse, but it is really hard to prove this) is. So, as long as the parents(both of them) didn't abuse the child, there is no way they can take away your child.
My advices to the parents:
1). You tell the social worker that both of you love your child, but you don't need to emphasize this, everybody knows that a normal parent loves his/her child. If you are so eager to prove this, it is indeed abnormal and will only hurt your case
2). You can admit that you are not careful enough, that you missed 2 annual physical checks and a few school parent meetings. You thank the school for reporting this to the social dept, and this becomes a big reminder so you will be more careful in the future
3). Don't say any bad words about the school(especially the father) and you understand why the school reported the case: the school just wanted to protect the child and you both understand this. You can even praise the school a little bit(as mentioned above), but not much---this is very important, don't be too thankful to the school--- it is abnormal. And abnormality is always suspicious. You want to show they that you are reasonable people, you will not do unrasonable things such as abusing a child
4). Be kind and confident with the social worker, make a relax and enjoyful environment(such as offering coffee, coke etc) when the social workers(they will come in pair) visit you. And even make a little bit jokes when they are here. Their report is very important, so even though you should be very careful with what you say with them in mind, you don't want to show you are defensive with them, you want them at least not hate and will not say bad words about you intentionally.
Good luck
Wether or not "是否真爱孩子" is not the judging point for them to take your child while physical abuse(and mental abuse, but it is really hard to prove this) is. So, as long as the parents(both of them) didn't abuse the child, there is no way they can take away your child.
My advices to the parents:
1). You tell the social worker that both of you love your child, but you don't need to emphasize this, everybody knows that a normal parent loves his/her child. If you are so eager to prove this, it is indeed abnormal and will only hurt your case
2). You can admit that you are not careful enough, that you missed 2 annual physical checks and a few school parent meetings. You thank the school for reporting this to the social dept, and this becomes a big reminder so you will be more careful in the future
3). Don't say any bad words about the school(especially the father) and you understand why the school reported the case: the school just wanted to protect the child and you both understand this. You can even praise the school a little bit(as mentioned above), but not much---this is very important, don't be too thankful to the school--- it is abnormal. And abnormality is always suspicious. You want to show they that you are reasonable people, you will not do unrasonable things such as abusing a child
4). Be kind and confident with the social worker, make a relax and enjoyful environment(such as offering coffee, coke etc) when the social workers(they will come in pair) visit you. And even make a little bit jokes when they are here. Their report is very important, so even though you should be very careful with what you say with them in mind, you don't want to show you are defensive with them, you want them at least not hate and will not say bad words about you intentionally.
Good luck
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