从大学要求看由“爬”到“飞”的“硬软”指标要求

从“爬”到“飞”是一个连点成线／面的过程，方向是"impact other people" or "为人民服务"。根据自己的特点把下面的一些点连上，你就能“飞”起来了。到那时你可能对这“藤”那“疼”就谈定了。

College requirements:

1.   Academically challenged (AP, IB...)
2.  Grades (GPA, etc...)
3.   Scores, (SAT, ACT...)
4.   Activities
5.   Contribution to society
6.   In-out school experience
7.   Essay, (Writing skills, personality, characters, values, goals)
8.   Recommendation letter, (stories, characters, integrity,special skills, positive traits)
9.   Honors and awards, (unusual，talent)
10. Other supplementary

College looking for:

1.Intellectual curiosity, challenges,  
2.Intellectual creativity
3.Academic achievement,  honors,advancement
4.Academic promise, quality of work
5.Leadership
6.Responsibility,
7.Self-confidence, disciplined work habits, integrity
8.Warmth of personality
9.Sense of humor
10.Concern for others
11.Energy
12.Maturity, independent
13.Initiative, motivation
14.Reaction to setbacks
15.Respect and respected

Employer looking for (example from Market Based Management)

Integrity
Compliance
Value Creation
Principled Entrepreneurship
Customer Focus
Knowledge
Change
Humility
Respect
Fulfillment

所有跟帖： 

• "Academically challenged"? LOL. -WSLama- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:04:57

• 选难的课，知难而上，，， -figmaster- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:08:09

• 选20几门AP的， 都是被你这种思想害的 -萧紫箬- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:12:27

• 量力而行，不必跟进，重在质量和进步趋势。选20几门AP的“牛娃”是极少数，“可遇不可求”且不一定最好。找到自己的特点和突破口才是 -figmaster- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:39:43

• 其实吧这就和打扮是一个意思。真漂亮的只要干净整齐就亮瞎一片。不漂亮的就要讲究什么发型啊眼影啊口红啊搭配啊首饰啊姿势啊等等。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (114 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:17:18

• 当今的世界早没有了NATURAL BEAUTY. -萧紫箬- ♀ (42 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:22:56

• 拍摄世界美丽地图。（文艺界就是个卖圈，爬界也一样。） -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (59 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 11:36:42

• 软硬指标都是建立在人的本性上，装得了一时，但是装不了一世的，靠外界的修改是改变不了内在的，就像整容，外表可整，基因却改不了。 -BBB_Bond- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 12:03:11

• 当时挣钱捞名就行，落袋为安嘛。 -大号蚂蚁- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/08/2015 postreply 12:09:38