他已经决定了你没有选择.

You have chosen putting kids above everything including yourself and your relationship. Your husband has chosen to end the relationship. We make choices and take risks that come with the choices.

Relationship is only possible when both want it. He wants out, what do you want? If he is firm about leaving, you don't have a choice.

No point of regretting about the past. No need to worry about future. Do the best you can today. Take good care of yourself, be the one parent who is always there for your kids and be proud.

Enjoy time with people we love, it's a privilege.