I agree with him 100%. Both my husband and I subscribe to the

Belief that Efforts matter more than innate talent, and constantly remarking how smart the kid is would backfire and cause him/her unwilling to try new things for fear of failing to live up to the reputation of "smart". We only compliment our kids for how hard they have tried, not how good they are.

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• confined to one's own comfort zone :-))) -篱笆08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2014 postreply 14:29:14

• Exactly. That's what I suffered during my adolescence. -AlexisMom- ♀ (36 bytes) () 09/12/2014 postreply 14:30:51

• 研究表明老被表扬的小孩缺乏动力，前几天学校发的资料上说的 -牛市小刀- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2014 postreply 14:30:48

• 娃还是要推？ -篱笆08- ♀ (0 bytes) () 09/12/2014 postreply 15:08:22