10 years old son always forgot assignments, cannot find homework

my 5th grader always got trouble, he seems not focused at school. teachers constantly emailed me or talked to him about his behave. and they also publicly humiliated him asking all the class if today he forgot anything. 

and at home, I tried every night to ask him not forget and finish all the assignment.

Now it seems he is tired of school.

He said he hated school.

And is that because mine nagging? How do I improve?

I want him to setup good study habit, I think that is what he lacking.

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• 回复：10 years old son always forgot assignments, cannot find homew -小睿儿- ♀ (125 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:00:59

• Thanks. One teacher has, so he did great , two other ones dont h -addie- ♀ (304 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:16:16

• 首先说中文吧，看英文费劲。其次，你大概得跟孩子一起坐下来做作业 -ca981- ♂ (285 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:25:30

• Sorry this laptop cannot install chinese, has admin restrict. -addie- ♀ (97 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:28:29

• 改变自己不容易，成年人如此，孩子也是如此。只能坚持了 -ca981- ♂ (224 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:35:12

• 我孩子也这样，3年纪 -westevil- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:24:17

• 我家儿子以前也这样， 慢慢大了就一点一点好起来 。到高中就不忘了 -seabright123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:28:28

• I feel most important to train him to have good study habits he -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:29:52

• routine对孩子是很重要的，从小baby开始就应该有一定的routine，当然内容和学龄童的不一样， -小睿儿- ♀ (72 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:47:27

• 我儿子小学时也这样，到了初中就好了，因为他自己很在乎学习成绩。 -海魂衫- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:37:53

• 多帮助，少斥责 -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (195 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:48:31

• Thank you so much. Only one teacher has planner, other two dont -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 07:54:36

• 不是，这是because你儿子很正常，也because那老师是个混蛋，你不能乱了阵脚，多督促， -Francine- ♀ (108 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:11:21

• Problem is they will kick him out of gifted class. I am very sad -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:49:29

• he is a genius. -中国心中国人- ♂ (33 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:14:03

• 回复：he is a genius. -又当爹来又当妈- ♀ (116 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:16:39

• 学校这样对你儿子，显然对你儿子没有任何好处。不管谁对谁错，当妈妈的，就得赶紧行动 -洲河- ♀ (389 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:34:50

• Thank you, I felt same. -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:58:58

• 回复：10 years old son always forgot assignments, cannot find homew -brotheravery- ♂ (1773 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:56:05

• 很好、很仔细的建议！ -ca981- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 08:59:09

• This is very good and positive suggestion. -addie- ♀ (10 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:00:52

• 这么专业和贴心的建议，真是好人 -洲河- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:02:46

• 谢谢。很高兴在子坛能够和大家交流，学习，互助。 -brotheravery- ♂ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:17:18

• This is very good and positive suggestion. -addie- ♀ (10 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:30:00

• 学校做的不好，你就更不要责备了，用奖励，按时完成一次作业有奖励 -crab_tree- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:01:25

• have you ever think he has ADHD? -Goinghome999- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:38:11

• That is what the teacher suggested me to take him to diagnosed, -addie- ♀ (33 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 09:54:44

• 如果老师都提到了，说明已经out of normal了，去咨询一下ADHD专家，起码能得到一些专业的建议 -芹菜妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 10:08:53

• To me, americans always think this disease or that disease. to m -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 10:27:17

• ADHD不是disease，是遗传决定的，是大脑天生不能很好抑制外界的干扰。 -芹菜妈- ♀ (135 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 10:39:04

• 坚决不能随便吃药。不要轻易相信什么ADHD. 加上那个标签 -julie116- ♀ (16 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 10:51:51

• totally agree -- 坚决不能随便吃药。不要轻易相信什么ADHD. 加上那个标签 -addie- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/25/2014 postreply 11:51:38