you need help from a therapist or a school

social worker who can talk to your son.  The next step is having a open communication with your son in the presence of the therapist/social worker, and set up an agreement on his computer habit management in which should includes no internet(shut down?) in sleeping time(at least 8 hrs). Make sure follow up and keep close communication with the therapist/social worker. 
   
Your son doesn't have to go to college right after high school.  If he doesn't have the drive to study, he can be drifting even in community college.  Let him take low wage, hard labor work until he has the motivation to take the responsibilty of his own education and career.  Tell him that you will be always there to support him when he is ready.

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• yeah, well said. the mother need to express her love to the boy, -msrbcm- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/08/2013 postreply 12:33:34

• but let the boy walk his journey. -msrbcm- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/08/2013 postreply 12:37:25