全职妈妈is not good.

Somebody said in the other post that:

'而有的男人宁愿下班回家做饭，带孩子分担家务也愿意让女人出去工作挣钱。男人和男人不一样。 大多数中国男人更愿意做后者。'
 

If things that '中国男人愿意做' are of such a shame, how about you, a 女人? That will become a good thing?

From what you talked, I can see you are 'not capable', just like the author said, to find a job.

What I would ask is, how much work there is deserving a whole person to stay at home always (0f course, I do not think  so called 全职妈妈 just means taking a break when borning babies, here a 全职妈妈 would mean those, who when possible, after kids grown-up, still do not want to work. )?

When your babies see their friends who have a working mom, they will want themselves to have a working mom too, this is true, really true.

So, for your kids`s sake, try to find some work to do. Of course, it is not good from basic for yourselves.
 

 

全职妈妈is not good.

 

所有跟帖： 

• 网上怎么这么多人喜欢替别人担忧? -茶园15- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:15:49

• 丈夫有能力有钱, 妻子在家里享受清闲舒适的生活, 有什么不好呢? -may1995- ♀ (408 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:17:11

• 哦, 富女人才可以做全职妈妈? -HelloHouse- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:23:49

• 对啊:) 穷人哪里有选择. -May1995- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:25:39

• 全职爸爸是不是好？ -周游列国逍遥人生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:25:21

• 也不错. 有人家里就是爸爸妈妈都全职的. -May1995- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:26:08

• Typical brain washed Chinese logics. -Rockeymountain- ♀ (133 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:26:15

• 全职妈妈good不good的，哪是你说了算的？:)) -在温哥华- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:30:49

• So can I say: -LoveAutumn- ♀ (343 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:33:03

• Work is work, no matter what value it produces. By the way, why -Jieri- ♀ (200 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:38:14

• Oh, dear, I really don't know the exact reason why I don't want -LoveAutumn- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:40:04

• 你去工作就好了，不要贬低别人行吗？ 你自己偷着乐吧。 -茶园15- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:40:23

• 偷着哭的更多。:)) -在温哥华- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:43:20

• Who knows wether you will not cry forever. -Jieri- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:46:18

• 我就是天天哭，也和你没啥关系吧。 就不知道你操什么心。管好自己吧。 -今真高兴- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:52:06

• So, exposed your tale... -Jieri- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:58:53

• 就把我的回帖再贴一遍。 -今真高兴- ♀ (1958 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:48:02

• 说得好。 -在温哥华- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:50:18

• nobody wants to 羞辱you, but you 羞辱 others first, then -Jieri- ♀ (407 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:58:04

• Then how about "有的男人享受下班回家就有饭吃,不带孩子不分担家务,让女人出去工作挣钱。"? -LoveAutumn- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:01:49

• 也许我没表达清楚：我说的是男人的不同选择： 太太工作， 你就得分担家务。 好多男人尤其是 -今真高兴- ♀ (289 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:06:15

• 有点看不过去:不, 你表达清楚; 但你是哪国男人的太太? -March5- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:15:54

• 我是中国人的太太。 我知道大家对中国男人这词比较敏感。 不想再说了。 -今真高兴- ♀ (29 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:26:41

• 你想不想工作都完全是你自己的事了，和中国男人，哪国男人， -March5- ♀ (56 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 14:31:09

• You do need a full time job to polish your Engkish -浅浅飞鸟- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:50:03

• Thanks, but I have good techniques, it can offset my bad English -Jieri- ♀ (11 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:04:06

• 我觉得你的英语挺好的. -March5- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 13:20:06