Then what did you mean:

'而有的男人宁愿下班回家做饭，带孩子分担家务也愿意让女人出去工作挣钱。男人和男人不一样。 大多数中国男人更愿意做后者。'

If things that '中国男人愿意做' are of such a shame, how about you, a 女人? That will become a good thing?

From what you talked, I can see you are 'not capable', just like the author said, to find a job.

What I would ask is, how much work there is deserving a whole person to stay at home always (0f course, I do not think  so called 全职妈妈 just means taking a break when borning babies, here a 全职妈妈 would mean those, who when possible, after kids grown-up, still do not want to work. )?

When your babies see their friends who have a working mom, they will want themselves to have a working mom too, this is true.

So, for your kids`s sake, try to find some work to do. Of course, it is not good from basic for yourselves.

全职妈妈is not good.

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• 我的意思很清楚： -今真高兴- ♀ (573 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:34:40

• by the way.我赶上了计算机热， 做了十多年的java. 我的能力不比你差。 不要jump into -今真高兴- ♀ (113 bytes) () 07/19/2013 postreply 12:39:21