reflecting on her own insecurity, even self-pity in the mainstream community. Most ABC I have known would politely say " I was born in US. My parents came from China many many years ago. I can understand a little chinese...."
BTW, ABC girls are more "white" than ABC boys, simply because they are easier to be accepted by boys in the mainstream, but also more prone to the racial attacks in girls' circle. So they ahve to be "white" to fit in at school. everybody needs friends. One ABC girl told me boys don't care what race you are. They are more inclusive and can play together easily. Girls do care. Parents with girls, you may need to pay particular attention to these issues. please be more understanding and considerate when talking about ABC girls.
BTW, ABC girls are more "white" than ABC boys, simply because they are easier to be accepted by boys in the mainstream, but also more prone to the racial attacks in girls' circle. So they ahve to be "white" to fit in at school. everybody needs friends. One ABC girl told me boys don't care what race you are. They are more inclusive and can play together easily. Girls do care. Parents with girls, you may need to pay particular attention to these issues. please be more understanding and considerate when talking about ABC girls.
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