I understand the difficult time.

Most of us have experienced such a period of frustrating time, especially at the beginning of the neew life in this land. If parents could not help, you might have to find other options inside family like siblings or other relatives, but never trust the ex family after divorce. If you sent son to his family, you were giving him away. Now at this age of 16 or 17, how can find a reconnection to such an aged son you had ignored for years. The mental bond between parents and children are the time together from the baby age. If a period is lost, it's hard to fill it later. 

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• 回复：I understand the difficult time. -长怀感恩的心- ♀ (25 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:03:15

• 人家被送给养父母的， 孩子大了亲父母来认了， 有的还非要自己的亲爹妈， 人和人不一样 -Qitian- ♀ (0 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:06:24

• 回复：人家被送给养父母的， 孩子大了亲父母来认了， 有的还非要自己的亲爹妈， 人和人不一样 -长怀感恩的心- ♀ (22 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:12:28

• Very rare unless 养父母 treat them badly. -pass2- ♂ (418 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:16:19

• 我家有个邻居： 领养的女儿是他们的心头肉， 结果亲父母来找了， 女儿常去看亲父母。。。 养母坐那， 气得阿扑阿扑， 女儿一回家， -QiTian- ♀ (178 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:25:26

• Special case, special case. -pass2- ♂ (56 bytes) () 03/08/2013 postreply 16:29:22