Thanks! I agree

对你写的你自己那部分非常有共鸣。我们这一两代人里，知识分子家庭出身的很多人都被父母交给他人抚养，回到父母身边后会有这样那样的问题。而你又更艰难一些，因为你不仅要适应不了解你、不知道该如何爱你的父母，还要适应一个新的文化。

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I totally agree.  A lot of kids growing up in the 60s and 70s were separated from their parentsin early childhood.  Later it is just hard for them to make that connection,. When that connect is not present during the most important part of the formative years, it's just gone.  It takes an effort to make up that loss.