我觉得你压力太大了。我原来和你差不多，现在已经磨得没脾气了。也许你将来向我这边儿

偏，就家庭幸福，孩子可爱了。这件事我站你LG这边，他比你会变通，你知不知道宋美龄访美时国宴忘了上餐具，宋美龄说上帝给我们一双手就是用来吃饭的，为什么不用呢？她带头用手抓着吃 -- 当然我想是可以抓的东西。不然把server都叫上来训一通？那就扫了气氛了。你要原谅人会犯错误，这点美国人比我们强，他们比较宽容，不斤斤计较，所以自己也比较快乐。你固然有理，但是处理不当。你试想，要是你先生撂挑子不干了，那你如何应对？又比如你原谅了他或她们，让她们去上课，回来再讲道理，又会怎样？至少你不会这样生气，对自己比较好。家不是可以完全用理来讲的地方，还要有很多人情味儿。读一读哥林多书关于爱的那一段：

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

New International Version (NIV)


4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.