as doctor'spouse,you have to take care of the family alone,

if you did not make yourself a doctor. I will not encourge my daughter to be a doctor, or marry to a doctor. It is not a good way of life.

 My dentist just devoiced,( he is well-known dentist in our area), he had a beautiful blone wife and two kids. he just can not be able to  keep her.

one fact is that  doctor spouse has high rate of affairs.

best way is  that  doctor marry to a doctor , hire a nanny.( not an attractive one)