an abc woman and kids in Beijing

last week, i met a ABC woman with three kids in my daughter's summer camp, we had a chat. her hu*****and also a Chinese American . her hu*****and was sent to Beijing for three years by a major corporation. she and her three kids went along with him.

      she told me: people treat me poorly, because i can not speak Chinese fluently, i do not have this Caucasian's look, i am glad to come back home now, here is my home.

she also told me that her son has a classmate in the international school, this is a Norwegian boy, blond with blue eyes, people stopped the boy and asked taking picture with him.

        this is how our fellow country men and women treat people. i just wonder some parents so eagerly send their kids to china to study and attend summer camps , your people do not worry about the culture shock , or emotional trauma the children may suffer if they encounter some bad experience.

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• 如果说歧视，或者不礼貌，哪儿都有。我觉着送孩子去国内上camp挺好啊，不同的环境可以锻炼孩子独立处理事情。 -旖旎风光- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 20:05:46

• 没说怎么对她不好了。 -Brooks- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 20:16:38

• 我朋友去中国，被要求一起照相，把他美的 ;-) 对你朋友不礼貌，确实不对。 -N.- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 20:19:40

• 可能他长着中国脸不会说中国话吧，又不想学,说自己是美国人，被人看不起吧。入乡随俗就好了。 -Lily3- ♀ (94 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 20:34:23

• --Where did you get this idea "可能他长着中国脸不会说中国话吧，又不想学,说自己是美国人，被人看不 -seabright123- ♀ (165 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:18:20

• 如果是中国脸加上美国态度，还中文不好，还是女的，那就比较惨 -cafeaulait- ♀ (79 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:30:02

• How can you be sure it's 长着中国脸, not other Asian face? -seabright123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:20:14

• 她自己说的，她和她LG都是ABC，孩子自然中国脸。 -lily3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:35:48

• 长了中国人脸，那你的 attitude 很重要。中国人最不买假洋鬼子的帐 -cafeaulait- ♀ (169 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 21:38:06

• I don't know anything about 假洋鬼子. But I do know that someone has -2544- ♀ (107 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:19:32

• 我家女儿被热烈欢迎。每天都带给我小朋友送她的礼物。 -incywincy- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/23/2012 postreply 22:14:11

• 你说的是一种现象。ABC回去过一段时间的。。。其中很多不太会把去中国工作当首选的。 -香香生煎馒头- ♀ (103 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 04:32:25

• 你这朋友的经历真不算啥，我是听说ABC碰到的事情比这怪异的多。多练练，见见世面也好。 -香香生煎馒头- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 04:37:09

• 是这样。 -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:01:35

• 各种地方、各种人都见一见，对孩子有好处 -walkabout- ♀ (283 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 05:49:46

• 很多中国人非常崇洋媚外，而且一定要“崇”蓝眼睛的白人 -小心眼不害怕- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 05:52:32

• 崇洋媚外这个词虽不好听，也是人性吧。是个人多少会崇尚先进的东西和它们的代表。 -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:22:12

• 去中国金发碧眼的很可能就是混混，只能代表西方先进社会的糟粕。 -cafeaulait- ♀ (27 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 06:46:36

• 是这样，不过这不叫以貌取人，这叫“It's nice to be on a winning team" lol. -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:03:12

• 不好说，这次回国发现国内打三非老外很得人心呢 -云槎- ♀ (376 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:05:58

• 也许在北京老外不稀奇了 -walkabout- ♀ (206 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:14:46

• 中国人的毛病，要么献媚要么仇外。总是极端。还是自卑感的问题。 -cafeaulait- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:16:02

• 有点。离平等对待，不卑不亢还有距离。 -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:19:19

• 是实情. 国内各方面变化都快，现在对老外的要求高了。 -yppk- ♀ (49 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 07:17:35

• 白人女性也有很多去了不习惯的。白男在国内最受欢迎，有些年轻白男开始都被吓着了，但很快就习惯了。 -yppk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/24/2012 postreply 05:55:36