What should I do?

来源: jasmineT 于 2006-03-06 15:47:23 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (484 bytes)

My hu*****and just got a dreamed job. There's no way not to let him take the offer. I understand how important it is for him. On the other hand, I have my own job (I'm making more money than he does, and I'm at the top level as an individual contributor). I don't feel like to be house wife. I don't have much chance in the place he is going to so I'm scared what if I can't find a job if I quit my current one. I'm hesitating. I want to hear from other people. Thank you.

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• If you are at the top of your game -OctoberMom- ♀ 给 OctoberMom 发送悄悄话 (40 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 15:55:54

• 回复：If you are at the top of your game -jasmineT- ♀ 给 jasmineT 发送悄悄话 (96 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:00:26

• 难，看来你们之中有一个得放弃，你们事前没有商量过吗？ -MOXIE- ♀ 给 MOXIE 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:12:30

• No -JasmineT- ♀ 给 JasmineT 发送悄悄话 (372 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:27:32

• 实话实说，这里没人能帮你。这个是你们俩个，嗯，都拿不定的 -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (80 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:33:23

• I know. Just wanted to talk about it to feel better. -jasmineT- ♀ 给 jasmineT 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:41:02

• 有时一下气闷了，来这里发泄一下，变回理性，也许 -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (102 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:46:57

• 回复：No -MOXIE- ♀ 给 MOXIE 发送悄悄话 (146 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 16:51:44

• 不能同意。有些工作离开特定的地方，就很难找。 -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (87 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:03:55

• That's my case. -JasmineT- ♀ 给 JasmineT 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:12:43

• 没错，我的意思是山不转水转么，楼主此时只能两难取其易， -MOXIE- ♀ 给 MOXIE 发送悄悄话 (64 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:25:15

• My choices are: -JasmineT- ♀ 给 JasmineT 发送悄悄话 (804 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:04:58

• #3 Get rid of such 'husband' :) -网恋无罪- ♂ 给 网恋无罪 发送悄悄话 网恋无罪 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:31:35

• 这个时候其实最好做的事是,问老公他是要career呢还是 -baydad- ♂ 给 baydad 发送悄悄话 (272 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:50:38

• 只能你忍痛割爱了 -emom- ♀ 给 emom 发送悄悄话 (199 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:46:27

• If either one of you drop your job right now -陈年酒- ♂ 给 陈年酒 发送悄悄话 陈年酒 的博客首页 (421 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 17:57:04

• 同感，如任何一方不是心甘情愿放弃，今后心里会有疙瘩 -跳跳猫的妈- ♀ 给 跳跳猫的妈 发送悄悄话 (402 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 19:53:09

• I gave up my 6 figure income and moved with my husband. -NDMom- ♀ 给 NDMom 发送悄悄话 (533 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 19:09:55

• Salute you!! -陈年酒- ♂ 给 陈年酒 发送悄悄话 陈年酒 的博客首页 (77 bytes) () 03/06/2006 postreply 21:33:42

• Don't give up your own career for anything. -lanyin1- ♀ 给 lanyin1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/07/2006 postreply 08:26:09

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