Some Inputs, Please

My daughter is carpooling with one of her classmates to school. I do the morning shift,


and the other mom does the afternoon shift. More than 1 month ago, another girl mentioned


she wanted to join the carpool (only for the morning), but her mom


won’t be able to drive due to illness and she would like just to pay for the gas, etc…


 


This girl’s house is relatively close and I only need to drive 2 more blocks. So, I called


her mom and said I would give her daughter a free ride if she had difficulty driving.


She talked about her physical conditions and thanked me for that.


 


Then later, the girl mentioned her mom drive to work every morning and drive to school


to pick her up every afternoon. Obviously, I was a little bit upset. But, chose to just let it go.


 


Now, my job requires me to work in a different city every Friday for a couple of months. So,


I called the 3rd girl’s mom and asked if she can drive the girls to school on Friday for


a few weeks. Her mom said she can not, but will check with her hu*****and and call me


back the next day. Now two days has passed, and she never called. This morning, the


3rd girl just mentioned that her dad is sick too, and can not drive.


 


I rearranged my schedule that allows me to show up late on Friday. But, I have decided


not to pick up the other girl tomorrow. I feel sorry for the girl, but believe it is time to draw a line.


 


Any comments?


 


Sorry, can’t type Chinese on my work computer.

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You are doing the right thing. Seems they are trying to take adv -shangri-la- 给 shangri-la 发送悄悄话 shangri-la 的博客首页 (215 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 14:27:39

回复:You are doing the right thing. Seems they are trying to take -Liantao- 给 Liantao 发送悄悄话 (469 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 14:55:26

这不是挺好的吗? -Manymore- 给 Manymore 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 14:45:30

then you need to call ahead. -用户名被占用了- 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (94 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 15:18:33

回复:then you need to call ahead. -Liantao- 给 Liantao 发送悄悄话 (193 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 15:27:19

no no no.'might not' is not a definite answer. -用户名被占用了- 给 用户名被占用了 发送悄悄话 用户名被占用了 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 15:44:10

告诉他们you are sick cannot drive two blocks to pick her up。他们就懂了。 -Brooks- 给 Brooks 发送悄悄话 Brooks 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 17:14:46

回复:告诉他们you are sick cannot drive two blocks to pick her up。他们就懂了 -liantao- 给 liantao 发送悄悄话 (139 bytes) () 10/27/2011 postreply 19:10:07

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