when you are emotional.
when you are emotional.
Appearance is a big thing in teens and young adults. When my son had a haircut which was only very slightly shorter than "perfect" on one tiny spot, he refused to take a formal picture which will show on school's yearbook. We had to cancel appointment(heavy fine) at a photo studio and wait for another 3 weeks.
Agree with Adazheng, if his disrespecfulness toward you or both parents is a pattern, then you need to check seriously your relationship with him, and set bottom lines and stick with them.
With one teen in my household, i would like to share that teens don't always mean or understand what they say or do. Most of times, thay are driven by surging hormone and emotions, often regret late. Seeing a counselor can help a lot. They can release nagative feelings safely, learn skills to manage nagative feelings, and keep mentally and emotionally healthy.